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Jen Guidry

Breaking Free from Burnout: Recognize, Understand, and Overcome

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Burnout has become a buzzword in our high-stress modern environment, but recognizing and addressing it goes beyond mere conversation—it requires actionable insights and strategies. I’ve seen firsthand how burnout can undermine even the most ambitious among us. I 've been there, and it is not pleasant. Let’s take a closer look into what burnout is, how to spot its subtle signs, and explore three actionable steps to effectively overcome it.

What is Burnout?
Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress. It occurs when you feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and unable to meet constant demands. As the stress continues, you begin to lose the interest or motivation that led you to take on a certain role in the first place. Sound familiar? Read on.

Recognizing the Signs of Burnout
Recognizing burnout is crucial to addressing it early. Here are some signs:
- Emotional Exhaustion: Feeling drained and fatigued without cause. This is more than just feeling tired after a long day; it's a profound and persistent sense of being drained of your emotional resources. This fatigue does not improve significantly with rest, which differentiates it from ordinary physical tiredness. You might feel like you have nothing left to give emotionally, even for activities or people you used to enjoy. The emotional toll can manifest physically, often making simple tasks feel insurmountably difficult.
- Cynicism and Detachment: Losing interest in work and social interactions. Initially, you might experience this as a growing indifference towards your work or the people around you, which can eventually escalate into a pervasive sense of cynicism. You might find yourself feeling disconnected from your colleagues and the mission of your work. This detachment is a defense mechanism, where you emotionally "check out" to protect yourself from the stress of high engagement. It leads to a reduction in personal accomplishment and can affect how you interact socially, often resulting in isolation and a loss of enjoyment in nearly all aspects of life.
Feelings of Ineffectiveness and Lack of Accomplishment: A strong sense that your efforts are fruitless, leading to decreased satisfaction. This involves a significant drop in self-esteem and personal productivity, marked by an ongoing sense that nothing you do makes a difference or is appreciated. Despite efforts, you may feel that your work is never good enough, or that all your job duties are futile. This can lead to a decreased sense of accomplishment and a loss of purpose and identity, particularly for those who tie a large part of their identity to their work or achievements.

Understanding these symptoms can alert you to take swift action to mitigate their impact.

Recognizing these symptoms early is key to addressing burnout effectively. If you or someone you know is experiencing these signs, it might be helpful to consider strategies for managing stress, such as discussing workload with supervisors, seeking professional help, or establishing a healthier work-life balance. Identifying the symptoms can also lead to proactive changes that prevent the deepening of burnout.

Three Actionable Steps to Overcome Burnout
If you find yourself identifying with the above symptoms, consider these steps to reclaim your energy and outlook:

1. Prioritize Self-Care
Shift your perspective on self-care: it's not a luxury, but a cornerstone of success. Start small; integrate activities that rejuvenate your mind and body. Whether it’s setting aside time for reading, yoga, or a creative hobby, find what truly disconnects you from the pressures of your routines.

  • What it Means: Self-care is essential for maintaining both mental and physical health. It means actively participating in activities that nourish and rejuvenate you rather than just indulging passively or sporadically.
  • How to Implement: Start by scheduling small, daily activities that help you unwind and disconnect from work-related stress. This could be as simple as taking a walk, practicing 10 minutes of meditation, or dedicating time to a hobby. The key is consistency; make self-care a routine rather than an afterthought. This regular disengagement helps to reset your stress levels and prevents the build-up of burnout.
  • Benefits: Regular self-care improves general well-being, reduces stress, enhances productivity, and restores your energy levels. It makes you more resilient to the pressures that contribute to burnout.

2. Set Boundaries and Learn to Say No
One of the most profound steps in combating burnout is learning to set boundaries. This might mean saying no to extra responsibilities or defining clear work-life boundaries. Remember, every no to unnecessary commitments represents a yes to your mental health and well-being.

  • What it Means: Setting boundaries is crucial in managing the demands of your professional and personal life. It involves understanding your limits and communicating them clearly to others.
  • How to Implement: Begin by evaluating your current commitments and identifying which ones contribute to your stress and burnout. Learn to say no to tasks that exceed your capacity or don't align with your primary goals. This might mean turning down extra projects at work, setting specific work hours, or even limiting time spent on electronic devices.
  • Benefits: Setting boundaries can significantly decrease stress and prevent the feeling of being overwhelmed. It ensures you have enough energy for your most important activities and responsibilities without being stretched too thin.

3. Seek Professional Help
Sometimes, the best action is turning to professionals...like a strong coach (that is me BTW).  Don’t underestimate the power of professional help in providing perspective and tools to handle stress.

  • What it Means: Sometimes, overcoming burnout requires assistance beyond what you can do on your own. This can include seeking support from a therapist, counselor, or a coach who specializes in stress management and burnout.
  • How to Implement: If you’re feeling stuck, a professional can offer new strategies and perspectives on managing stress and workload. 
  • Benefits: Professional help can provide you with tailored strategies and tools to cope with stress, improve your emotional and psychological health, and offer accountability in your journey to recovery. A professional, like a coach, can also help you to rebuild your professional identity and regain your sense of purpose and direction, essential for those who tie much of their self-worth to their careers.


Burnout doesn’t have to be a life sentence. With the right strategies, you can overcome its symptoms and emerge more resilient and focused. Remember, recognizing the signs early and taking decisive action can transform how you handle stress and lead to sustained personal and professional growth.

For those feeling overwhelmed, consider these steps not just as remedies but as preventative measures to maintain your well-being in today’s fast-paced world. Empower yourself to step back, reassess, and push forward with renewed energy and a clearer mind. By integrating these steps into your life, you can start to see significant improvements in how you manage stress and react to the pressures that lead to burnout. Remember, the goal is not just to survive but to thrive, maintaining both productivity and happiness.

 

Jen Guidry is the #1 executive coach for women and female loan officers. She is also a best-selling author who helps her clients find life-balance, overcome past trauma, and achieve high-level success. Follow Jen on LinkedIN, Instagram, YouTube and Facebook to continue to get great insight and inspiration.